Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Battle....


Not long ago I was watching a program in which a woman was describing herself…….. she said she was quite a mean spirited person and when any of her FRIENDS had something good happen to them she secretly wished it all went wrong………… disturbing eh?.............I was shocked……… at her admission but equally admired her public honesty………. Would I want to be her friend?... Nope………………. However, going by statistics, I apparently do have ‘friends’ just like her…….. this has become a topic of discussion……. Woman who hate other women who are doing well or succeeding in life and/or their careers…… Ok……… sooooooooo, who is this information new too??.... anyone?..... anybody??..... you maa’m?.... no? your aware??,….. ok,…. you sir?.... oh your also aware ……… its old news!.........before I go on….. just so we are clear……some  men also feel this way however they communicate it less….. in short, they are less vocal with their ‘bitching’………..for obvious reasons, its just not seen as ‘manly’ is it?......so here we are in the era of discussing the ugliness of  Jealousy and Envy………. Accepting that there is a constant battle with our sisters……….. that is NOT a good feeling…………..so for every accolade I pay someone in the sprit of sisterhood, there are 5 others wishing her downfall??..... Jealousy and envy…. Are they the same?.... or is one in fact worst than the other…… Jealousy: the feeling of not wanting something for someone else…. Envy: the feeling of wanting it for yourself…… lets try another angle….so could there be a type of ‘healthy envy’???........... to want something that someone else has in an aspirational sense….. like a private mentor……….. you watch this person and emulate their moves in order to gain a step forward………. Equally you admire them for opening doors and leading the way………. Is that not the better way?...the right way??...Ok ok!!....... it has now become something else………. Death to jealousy and envy!.......... in my view it’s a handcuff to bitterness and misery……….. both of which loves company………..so for those who choose that route…….. good luck to you…….. Me?, there is absolutely nothing like a woman who is doing HER thing, making moves and enjoying life!..... I will champion that all day long!. 






Wearing: jacket by Kervin Marc, top ACNE, jeans True Religion, boots Isabel Marant, glasses Tom Ford

Thanks for stopping by,

Love and Light,

Qxx
 

8 comments:

  1. I was literally just talking about this! That thrill that some girls get by saying "Kim's fat, Beyonce can't sing, Rihanna's ugly"... I REBUKE THAT! X

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  2. Fun look..love the jacket..work it cover girl!!

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  3. oo I love the jacket!!

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  4. Death of Jealousy and envy would be really great. it sucks. And don't understand it, there is place for every one! You are wearing my favorite booties, adore this look!
    Simona
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  5. I love this look!!

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  6. Love this look! Very laid back. Love the army print jacket. Awesome look!

    KTR

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  7. You have a point here! But women were always jealous of one another and I doubt this will stop at any point in the future. Anyway, I absolutely looove your jacket, suits you really well! Do you maybe want to follow each other? :)
    xx Lara
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